This is truly a very delicate and emotional time for you, but first, know that you are not alone. When the threat or situation of divorce arises, it creates intense sorrow, despair, and anxiety in the heart. This feeling is completely natural, and at this time the most important thing is that you recognize your emotions, give comfort to your heart, and ask for Allah’s help. Your patience, courage, and trust in Allah are your greatest strengths, and with their help, you can pass through this difficult phase.
Wazifa
Perform ablution (Wudu) with clean water daily and set aside a quiet time for yourself; it is better if this time is during the last part of the night. First, recite Durood Shareef 10 times so that the heart and soul become pure. After that, recite “Ya Wadud Ya Raheem” (O Most Loving, O Most Merciful) 1100 times. Finally, you should recite Durood Shareef 10 more times to conclude this Wazifa. You must perform the described Wazifa only after the Isha prayer and continue it for 14 days. By performing this Wazifa, you will receive Allah’s divine help within a few days, which will cause the threat of divorce between you two to be permanently eliminated.
Causes of Divorce
We believe the several reasons below could be the cause of divorce between you and your husband. Understand these reasons and adopt a strategy, Insha’Allah your positive efforts can bring happiness and peace to your life.
Your husband’s temperament might be very stubborn.
He prefers giving orders instead of listening.
Getting angry over small matters is his habit.
They are less emotional and more practical.
Unnecessary family pressure can damage the relationship.
Financial difficulties may have increased mental stress.
Your husband cannot tolerate criticism.
They often increase distances by remaining silent.
He misunderstands your words.
There may be interference from the mother-in-law or other relatives.
The relationship may have cracked due to envy.
The evil eye may have spoiled the home environment.
Someone may have performed black magic.
Negative energies may have weakened the bond.
There could be a shadow of jinn or invisible effects.
It’s possible the husband is influenced by someone.
Trust between you may have diminished.
Past matters may be repeatedly brought up.
Misunderstandings may have increased over time.
Spiritual unrest can also be a cause of divorce.
Spiritual Advice
Dear sister, to spend an entire life with a husband, it is essential that you try to spend time with him by understanding his psyche, emotions, and spiritual nature. When you try to change something for your husband, he will also change himself for you and begin giving you the utmost importance. Therefore, we have stated a few things below; understand and act upon them, Insha’Allah the coming time will bring happiness to your life.
Respect his leadership and decision-making.
Do not put restrictions on his autonomy.
Instead of criticism, give praise and encouragement.
Present your ideas with confidence.
Try to become the center of his attention.
Reduce dependence on him in daily matters.
Appreciate his creative abilities.
Appear emotionally strong and self-sufficient.
Avoid direct confrontation in conflicts.
Do not let his self-esteem be hurt.
Understand his interest in new ideas and projects.
Avoid monotony in the relationship, incorporate newness.
Take an interest in his goals and dreams.
Be clear and straightforward in communication.
Adopt a confident manner to gain his attention.
Share household responsibilities but do not control.
Acknowledge his determination and hard work.
Avoid emotional uncertainty or drama.
Maintain your separate identity and positive activities.
Develop the relationship with patience and wisdom.
